The photo below is a like finding and holding the self. At first it may be "seen" as a light in the third eye, or more commonly, felt as a tingling or energy around the heart or belly. With attention, abiding in this feeling, loving it, it expands and changes and becomes a constant sense of presence. You hold onto this presence as gently as the baby below.
Then you begin to realize there still is a you who witnesses that sense of presence, and that "you" is closer than that sense of presence. You become aware that "you" have no quality or presence whatsoever. You have no state, no quality, no space or no time. You are beyond that which changes in consciousness. This 'You' cannot not be known, you can only be it. It is already you. Thus, through dropping concepts, becoming stupid and only looking and feeling within, with discrimination you remove all that is and can be known, seen, tasted, touched or felt in any way.
You are That which holds and supports everything in consciousness including your sense of self and existence. Now it holds you.